This guide for gay men contains important information about coming out, health, dating and sex. (For beginners and advanced.)This guide aims to amuse, inform and advise you, whether you are about to bust out of the closet or have already experienced the highs and lows of guy-on-guy love. Coming out, the gay scene, dating, relationships, health and sex are all discussed. Why am I gay? How do I find a nice guy and keep him around? Whats the best way to avoid STDs while still enjoying an adventurous sex life? Where does the aggression against gays and lesbians come from and how can we avoid it and fight it? Useful information and practical suggestions are the focus, navel gazing is out. In short, this book will help you attain the second, old-fashioned meaning of the word gay.This guide aims to amuse, inform and advise you, whether you are about to bust out of the closet or have already experienced the highs and lows of guy-on-guy love. Coming out, the gay scene, dating, relationships, health and sex are all discussed. Why am I gay? How do I find a nice guy and keep him around? Whats the best way to avoid STDs while still enjoying an adventurous sex life? Where does the aggression against gays and lesbians come from and how can we avoid it and fight it? Useful information and practical suggestions are the focus, navel gazing is out. In short, this book will help you attain the second, old-fashioned meaning of the word gay.